TLC Pumpkin Patch in Tierra Santa - This place is small and rustic and I really like it. Best of all it's not on the "pumpkin patch" lists when you google or look around for them which means limited people.
This year I also like Summer Past Farms in the Foothills of East County in the community of Flinn Springs. I went on a weekday- the 18th and there was nobody there which is kinda amazing since it is totally badass. http://www.summerspastfarms.com/
Still need to check out Suzies Farms Pumpkin Palooza. http://www.suziesfarm.com/index.php?/site/orderOnline/#ecwid:category=917666&mode=product&product=15582962